Jemima Farris
Who is Jemima Farris? Podcaster, Chef, Artist, Mentor and Advocate for children in cults, high coercion groups or families. Born into the Children of God cult, she knew nothing of the world outside the group until she was excommunicated at age 27. Alone and with a small child, she chose to attend Clark College in Vancouver, Washington to study Business Administration. After growing up extremely isolated and with little knowledge of the society she now lived in, she struggled with severe addictions, poverty, job losses, eviction, abusive relationships etc. On March 10th, 2013, she made a decision to take back her life and stopped using meth. In the following years she also overcame addictions to food, alcohol and cigarettes. In 2021, she and her best friend Whisper James (also a survivor of the Children of God cult), decided to start a podcast called Butterflies and Bravery. The focus of the podcast is to reach second generation cult children and let them know they're not alone in their struggles as well as provide a platform for survivors to tell their stories in their own words. It has become a place where each person can speak freely about the things that too often are not talked about. Jemima lives in the foothills of the Bitterroot Mountains in Central Idaho with her husband, daughter, 2 cats and 3 dogs.
Protect Your Light
Cage
Haiku by Jemima Farris for Butterflies and Bravery
Gold or plastic
spoon In your mouth at birth
I had bit and bridle
Nerves on high alert
Runners at the starting line
Waiting for the gun
You've already tried
Nondisclosure why not try
Talking about it?
The story is mine
I am the creator of
My hopes, dreams and loves
You may be a rock,
Even a rock gets Worn by
the river flowing
Small steps are progress
Each step brings you to yourself
Your destination.
Be eye candy
or Be soul food or be both
but Always just be you
I'll loan you my map
But the journey to yourself
Will be yours alone
It is not life that
Changes, or becomes better
It is you my dear.
I did what I feared
And I lost only one thing,
That was fear itself
Within her a lion
Ever roars, but it cannot find
The path to her voice